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Oxford, New Zealand
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I'm shy at first but once I get to know you a little I open up more

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Oxford, New Zealand
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Oxford, New Zealand
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How to Stay Safe While Dating in Oxford, New Zealand

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    Meet in public first

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Success Stories from Oxford, New Zealand

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Alex

Alex, 28

Found love in Oxford

Just moved to Oxford and didn't know any gay guys. Met my boyfriend here after just two weeks. We started as friends, then dating, now we're talking about moving in together. Best app I've ever used for actually meeting quality guys.

Jake

Jake, 24

College student from Oxford, New Zealand

Was curious about being with guys but didn't know how to explore that safely. Met some really cool, understanding guys here who helped me figure things out. Now I'm confident in who I am and have made some great friends. This community is amazing.

Ryan

Ryan, 35

Professional from Oxford

After a long relationship ended, I wasn't ready for anything serious. Met several guys here for casual fun and friendship. No pressure, no drama, just good times with cool guys. When I'm ready to date again, I know where to look.

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